Tuesday, December 23, 2008

girls. who are we?

i'm over it.

i was just on facebook. and i have something to say.

girls are desperate.

we all are.

for attention that makes us feel like we're wanted. (particularly by guys). a call, a look, a note, a facebook post, a text, etc. we NEED it. even if we don't like the guy...we need attention.

what is is that happens inside of us that we need that kind of attention?

I just saw a comment on an old friend's wall that said 'hey you never replied to my text so i thought i'd just post on here.'

here's one thing about guys-i think- if they really find you important or worth their time, they'll pay attention to you...if not, then they're over it, or were never into it....

even just guy friends seem to be that way....

I don't know. It disturbs me that we act and even feeel the way we do.

i'm over it.

i'm good. i'm independent. get over yourself ladies.

actually, i just was talking to another friend about this last week. the guy she liked wasn't paying attention to her....so i said. 'just live.' do what you want and don't think so much about it. really...


so. live. love. enjoy moments. but don't think too much. i mean, keep your head and be sensible, but be yourself and love.....


the end.





ps. guys have just as many issues as we do. but this is just one of i was thinking of. so guys, you aren't off the hook.

1 comment:

megan said...

i totally agree. we crave this attention even if it's from a guy we're not attracted to or a guy with whom we're just friends. and it's pathetic. even tho, i know i still do it...
as far as twilight-
it was not (brace yourself) the best book i have ever read. *gasp* but i have read approximately 3 bajillion books. and i was kinda disapointed about the lack of character development. lol. but it was very good. very entertaining and definitely the best book about vampires i have ever come across. i haven't seen the movie tho because the movie is never as good as the book.